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Excuses Excuses

We all have excuses that we use even after we get motivated.  Here are a few thought to help you get around obstacles in your weight loss journey.  Many of them have actually helped me.


Time
  • I don't have enough time.
  • I've already made prior commitments.
  • I have errands and housework to do.
  • I have to go to class.
  • I have homework to do.

Solution
Schedule in your workout time the same way you would schedule classes, appointments, or meetings.  Wake up earlier.  Reduce your commitments.  Prioritize your schedule.  Make nutritional meals in advance.  Then just heat them up like a microwave dinner.

Family
  • I have to take care of the kids.
  • I must be more involved with my family.
  • My family doesn't try to help me.
  • My family won't eat healthy food.

Solution
Part of being a family is doing things together, so why not discover good health together.  Engage in physical activities.  Play ball in the evenings, go to the pool, go hiking or bike riding together.  If you family is resistant to changing their activities or diet, decide that you will be their role model for better health.  When you make the meals, have your family eat the same healthy foods that you do (even if they hate it).  They'll eventually learn to love this new lifestyle.

Friends
  • I can't get motivated without a buddy.
  • My friends don't try to help me.
  • I don't want to feel left out.
  • I don't want to look like the odd one.
  • I don't want friends to think I'm weak.

Solution
If you need buddy support, find a buddy.  It's easy to find someone who also wants to lose weight.  Continue to go out with your friends, and do everything that you used to do, except watch your food choices.  Even in the most unhealthy of restaurants you can often find healthy entrées.  True friends accept you as you are and won't try to discourage you, but if you do run into such problems, talk with them.  If they refuse to support you, find new friends.  You might even inspire them to get fit.

Work
  • I work long hours.
  • I work odd hours.
  • I'm too tired after work.
  • I job is already physically demanding.

Solution
Exercise can start out by taking up only 20 minutes.  Everyone can find 20 minutes in the 1440 minutes of every day. You can even workout at 2:00 am if it fits your schedule.  Exercise will also help you boost your energy, so you won't be so tired after work.  Physical jobs are often stressful.  Exercise that isn't work related after work will help you reduce some of this stress and get you ready for the next day.

Health
  • I'm injured.
  • My problem is hormonal.

Solution
Work with what you've got.  Your body is designed to move.  It works best when it is exercised and often encourages healing (i.e. physical therapy).  Even if you are in a full body cast, exercise your fingers or toes.  Try to do stretches when your sick.  Just be sure to consult your doctor before you jump into anything.  If it is a medical condition that has caused you to gain weight, talk to your doctor to find out what you can do within your limitations to reduce the weight.  Even if your weight gain is hormonal, exercise and good nutrition can help counteract the effects of the hormones and may sometimes even help stabilize hormones.

Emotional
  • I'm too depressed.
  • I'm too angry.
  • I'm apathetic.
     

Solution
Depression can often be reduced with exercise.  You can even get an emotional boost from the chemicals released during exercise.  Exercise is also a great way to get out frustration.  Nothing beats letting off steam like boxing with a punching bag.  If you just don't care, can't get in the mood, etc., just do it anyhow.  Once you start exercising, you'll probably just continue to do it for the full hour.

Fitness
  • I'm out of shape so exercise is difficult.

Solution
Everyone starts off out of shape.  Ever see a baby try to run a marathon?  We all have to start somewhere, even if it's a light stroll from our front door to our mailbox.  Start at the bottom and work your way up.  You'll be on your way to total fitness in no time.

 

 

 

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