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Motivation


Need Motivation?

Did you know that by being overweight you increase your risk of other problems, like:

  • heart disease
  • high blood pressure
  • low energy levels
  • diabetes
  • stroke
  • certain types of cancer
  • back pain
  • decreased immunity to illness
  • physical injury
  • high cholesterol
  • arthritis
  • sleep apnea
  • gallbladder disease
  • gout
  • depression
  • anxiety
  • low self-esteem
  • decreased social interaction
  • decreased sexual desires

 

How To Get Motivated

Weight loss programs often fail by a lack of motivation alone.  Sure we all say we want to lose weight, but are really ready to go the extra mile and do what must be done to shed those extra pounds?

You must create mental and emotional motivation.  Mental motivation is simple.  Just read the list of risks above, and you will mentally think, "Wow, I really should lose weight, so I won't develop diabetes, heart disease, or depression."  Emotional motivation is a bit more complex.  If you are emotionally motivated you don't just think about the risks and benefits; you feel them.  You feel that not losing weight would be painful, and you'll do whatever you have to do to avoid the pain.

Motivation can come from a variety of sources.  Maybe your child asks you why you are fat or worries that he/she will be fat too.  Maybe you saw a movie that inspired you.  Maybe there is a special event in your life that you want to lose weight for.  Maybe you're just tired of being tired and out of shape.  If you've gotten far enough to find this web page and actually read it, chances are you have some level of motivation to lose weight.  Now you must figure out how to boost that level of motivation so that it continues to push you to reach your goal.

Everyone uses a different method to boost motivation.  Some people write in journals while other people simply have to look in the mirror.  For others it may be trying on those tight jeans everyday to see if they feel any looser.  You might even feel motivated just by being around people who have similar weight loss goals.  Experiment with a variety of methods to find out which one is perfect for you.  Here are some motivation ideas I've tried:

  • Post motivating quotes around your home or in your purse or bag
  • Keep a journal (check out the Weight Loss Workbook)
  • Join or make a support group
  • Find someone who will act as your sponsor who will remind you of your goals and help you back to your program whenever you go off track
  • Measure yourself weekly
  • Buy an outfit that you will be able to wear once you reach your goal and try it on occasionally
  • Focus on small weekly goals (like 1 lb. per week)
  • Watch movies or television shows about weight loss
  • Pray or use methods of energy manipulation that fit in with your religion
  • Place a photo of yourself when you were at your fattest on the refrigerator and monthly place a current photo next to it, so you can see your progress
  • Reward yourself for reaching a goal (and don't give into giving yourself the reward before you've reached the goal)
  • Use visualization techniques

 

 

 

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